ABIGAIL
ADAMS .
Inheriting
New England's strongest traditions, Abigail Smith was
born on November 11, 1744 at Weymouth, Massachusetts.
On her mother's side she was descended from the Quincys,
a family of great prestige in the colony.
Like other
women of the time, Abigail lacked formal education,
but curiosity spurred her keen intelligence, and she
read avidly the books at hand. Reading created a bond
between her and the young John Adams and they were married
in 1764. It was a marriage of the mind and of the heart,
enduring for more than half a century.
In ten years
she bore three sons and two daughters. Abigail looked
after family and home when John went traveling to serve
the country they loved. Her letters - pungent, witty,
and vivid, spelled just as she spoke - detail her life
in times of revolution. They tell the story of a woman
who struggled with wartime shortages and inflation,
ran the farm with a minimum of help and taught four
children when formal education was interrupted. They
tell of her loneliness without her "dearest Friend."
In 1784,
she joined him at his diplomatic post in Paris. After
1785, she filled the role of wife of the first United
States minister to Great Britain. They returned to Massachusetts
in 1788, to the handsome home they had just acquired
at Braintree, later called Quincy.
As wife
of the first vice president, Abigail became a good friend
to Martha Washington and a valued help in official entertaining,
drawing on her experience of courts and society abroad.
After 1791, however, poor health forced her to spend
as much time as possible in Quincy. Illness found her
resolute. She once declared, she would "not forget the
blessings which sweeten life."
When John
Adams was elected President, she continued a formal
pattern of entertaining--even in the primitive conditions
she found at the new capital in November 1800. The city
was wilderness, the President's House far from complete,
but for her three months in Washington she duly held
official dinners and receptions.
The Adamses
retired to Quincy in 1801, and for 17 Years enjoyed
the companionship that public life had long denied them.
Abigail Adams died in 1818, and is buried beside her
husband in United First Parish Church. She leaves her
country a most remarkable record as patriot and first
lady, wife of one president and mother of another.

Martha
'Patsy'Jefferson Randolph
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MARTHA
JEFFERSON .
At age 22,
Martha Wayles Skelton was already a widow, an heiress,
and a mother whose firstborn son would die in early
childhood. Family tradition says she was accomplished,
beautiful and wooed by many. When Thomas Jefferson came
courting, perhaps a love of music cemented the romance.
Jefferson played the violin, and he ordered his new
bride a "forte-piano" for the home he was building at
Monticello.
Martha was
born on October 31, 1748. She married Jefferson at her
childhood home near Williamsburg, Virginia, on New Year's
Day, 1772. Reaching Monticello in a snowstorm after
dark, the couple toasted their new house with a leftover
bottle of wine and "song and merriment and laughter."
That night, on their own mountaintop, the love of Martha
and Thomas Jefferson seemed strong enough to endure
any adversity.
The birth
of their daughter Martha in September increased their
happiness. In ten years the family gained five more
children. Only two lived to grow up: Martha, called
Patsy, and Mary, called Maria or Polly.
The strain
of frequent pregnancies weakened Martha so gravely that
Thomas curtailed his political activities to stay near
her. He refused an appointment as a commissioner to
France. Just after New Year's Day, 1781, a British invasion
forced Martha to flee the capital in Richmond with an
infant girl - who died in April. In June the family
barely escaped an enemy raid on Monticello. She bore
another daughter the following May, and never regained
strength. Jefferson wrote on May 20 that her condition
was dangerous. After months of tending her devotedly,
he noted in his account book for September 6, 1782 "My
dear wife died this day at 11-45 A.M."
For three
weeks he shut himself in his room, pacing back and forth
until exhausted. Slowly that first anguish spent itself.
In November he agreed to serve as commissioner to France,
eventually taking "Patsy" with him in 1784 and sending
for "Polly" later.
When Jefferson
became president in 1801, he had been a widower for
19 years. He had become as capable of handling social
affairs as political matters. Occasionally he called
on Dolley Madison for assistance. His daughter Patsy
served as the lady of the President's House in the winter
of 1802-1803. She was there again in 1805-1806, and
gave birth to a son named for James Madison, the first
child born in the White House. It was Patsy Randolph
with her family who shared Jefferson's retirement at
Monticello until he died there in 1826.
DOLLEY
MADISON .
For half
a century she was the most important woman in the social
circles of America. To this day she remains one of the
best known and best loved ladies of the White House.
She always
called herself Dolley, and by that name her birth was
recorded on May 20, 1768 by the Society of Friends,
in Guilford County, North Carolina. In 1783 her father
took the family to Philadelphia, city of the Quakers.
Dolley married
John Todd, Jr., a lawyer, in 1790. Three years later
he died in a yellow-fever epidemic, leaving her with
a small son. By this time Philadelphia had become the
capital city. The young widow attracted distinguished
attention. Dolley reported to her best friend that "the
great little Madison has asked.... to see me this evening."
Although
James Madison was 17 years her senior, and Episcopalian,
they were married in September 1794. The marriage, though
childless, was notably happy. Madison was even patient
with Dolley's son, Payne, who mishandled his own affairs
- and, eventually, mismanaged their estate.
Discarding
the somber Quaker dress after her second marriage, Dolley
chose the finest of fashions. A chronicler wrote: "She
looked a Queen.... It would be absolutely impossible
for any one to behave with more perfect propriety than
she did."
Dolley made
her home the center of society. She assisted at the
White House when the President Jefferson asked her help
in receiving ladies, and presided at the first inaugural
ball in Washington when James Madison became chief executive
in 1809. Although Dolley's social graces made her famous,
her husband prized her political acumen. Her gracious
tact smoothed many a quarrel.
During the
War of 1812, Dolley was forced to flee from the White
House by the British army. Her quick thinking saved
a portrait of George Washington from being destroyed
by fire. Upon returning to the capital, she found the
Executive Mansion in ruins. Undaunted by temporary quarters,
she entertained as skillfully as ever.
The Madisons
lived in pleasant retirement at their plantation Montpelier
in Virginia until he died in 1836. She returned to the
capital in the autumn of 1837, and friends found tactful
ways to supplement her diminished income. She remained
in Washington until her death in 1849, honored and loved
by all. The delightful personality of this unusual woman
is a cherished part of her country's history.