DOLLEY
MADISON .
For half
a century she was the most important woman in the social
circles of America. To this day she remains one of the
best known and best loved ladies of the White House.
She always
called herself Dolley, and by that name her birth was
recorded on May 20, 1768 by the Society of Friends,
in Guilford County, North Carolina. In 1783 her father
took the family to Philadelphia, city of the Quakers.
Dolley married
John Todd, Jr., a lawyer, in 1790. Three years later
he died in a yellow-fever epidemic, leaving her with
a small son. By this time Philadelphia had become the
capital city. The young widow attracted distinguished
attention. Dolley reported to her best friend that "the
great little Madison has asked.... to see me this evening."
Although
James Madison was 17 years her senior, and Episcopalian,
they were married in September 1794. The marriage, though
childless, was notably happy. Madison was even patient
with Dolley's son, Payne, who mishandled his own affairs
- and, eventually, mismanaged their estate.
Discarding
the somber Quaker dress after her second marriage, Dolley
chose the finest of fashions. A chronicler wrote: "She
looked a Queen.... It would be absolutely impossible
for any one to behave with more perfect propriety than
she did."
Dolley made
her home the center of society. She assisted at the
White House when the President Jefferson asked her help
in receiving ladies, and presided at the first inaugural
ball in Washington when James Madison became chief executive
in 1809. Although Dolley's social graces made her famous,
her husband prized her political acumen. Her gracious
tact smoothed many a quarrel.
During the
War of 1812, Dolley was forced to flee from the White
House by the British army. Her quick thinking saved
a portrait of George Washington from being destroyed
by fire. Upon returning to the capital, she found the
Executive Mansion in ruins. Undaunted by temporary quarters,
she entertained as skillfully as ever.
The Madisons
lived in pleasant retirement at their plantation Montpelier
in Virginia until he died in 1836. She returned to the
capital in the autumn of 1837, and friends found tactful
ways to supplement her diminished income. She remained
in Washington until her death in 1849, honored and loved
by all. The delightful personality of this unusual woman
is a cherished part of her country's history.
ELIZABETH
MONROE .
Romance glints
from what little is known of Elizabeth Kortright's early
life. She was born in New York City in 1768, to an old
New York family. Because of ties to the Crown, her father
had taken no active part in the War of Independence;
and James Monroe wrote to his friend Thomas Jefferson
that he had married the daughter of a gentleman "injured
in his fortunes" by the Revolution.
Strange
choice, perhaps, for a patriot veteran with political
ambitions and little money of his own - but Elizabeth
was beautiful, and love was decisive. They were married
in February 1786, when the bride was not yet 18. His
political career kept the young couple on the move as
the family increased by two daughters and a son who
died in infancy.
In 1794,
Elizabeth accompanied her husband to France when President
Washington appointed him United States minister. Arriving
in the midst of the French Revolution, she took a dramatic
part in saving Lafayette's wife, imprisoned and expecting
death on the guillotine. The American minister's wife
went to the prison and asked to see Madame Lafayette.
After this hint of American interest, the prisoner was
set free. Elizabeth was very popular in France, and
received the affectionate name of "la belle Americaine."
For 17 years
the Monroes alternated between foreign missions and
service in Virginia. They made the plantation of Oak
Hill their home, and appeared on the Washington scene
in 1811 when James became President Madison's secretary
of state.
Elizabeth
Monroe was an accomplished hostess after her husband
took the presidential oath in 1817. She and her daughter
changed White House customs to create the formal atmosphere
of European courts. Even the White House wedding of
her daughter Maria was private, in "the New York style"
rather than the expansive Virginia social style made
popular by Dolley Madison
Through
much of the administration, however, she was in poor
health and curtailed her activities. Wives of the diplomatic
corps and other dignitaries took it amiss when she decided
to pay no calls - an arduous social duty in a city of
widely scattered dwellings and unpaved streets. Subsequent
first ladies certainly benefited by Elizabeth Monroes
breaking from this tradition.
In retirement
at Oak Hill, Elizabeth died on September 23, 1830; and
family tradition says that her husband burned the letters
of their life together.