ELIZABETH
MONROE .
Romance glints
from what little is known of Elizabeth Kortright's early
life. She was born in New York City in 1768, to an old
New York family. Because of ties to the Crown, her father
had taken no active part in the War of Independence;
and James Monroe wrote to his friend Thomas Jefferson
that he had married the daughter of a gentleman "injured
in his fortunes" by the Revolution.
Strange
choice, perhaps, for a patriot veteran with political
ambitions and little money of his own - but Elizabeth
was beautiful, and love was decisive. They were married
in February 1786, when the bride was not yet 18. His
political career kept the young couple on the move as
the family increased by two daughters and a son who
died in infancy.
In 1794,
Elizabeth accompanied her husband to France when President
Washington appointed him United States minister. Arriving
in the midst of the French Revolution, she took a dramatic
part in saving Lafayette's wife, imprisoned and expecting
death on the guillotine. The American minister's wife
went to the prison and asked to see Madame Lafayette.
After this hint of American interest, the prisoner was
set free. Elizabeth was very popular in France, and
received the affectionate name of "la belle Americaine."
For 17 years
the Monroes alternated between foreign missions and
service in Virginia. They made the plantation of Oak
Hill their home, and appeared on the Washington scene
in 1811 when James became President Madison's secretary
of state.
Elizabeth
Monroe was an accomplished hostess after her husband
took the presidential oath in 1817. She and her daughter
changed White House customs to create the formal atmosphere
of European courts. Even the White House wedding of
her daughter Maria was private, in "the New York style"
rather than the expansive Virginia social style made
popular by Dolley Madison
Through
much of the administration, however, she was in poor
health and curtailed her activities. Wives of the diplomatic
corps and other dignitaries took it amiss when she decided
to pay no calls - an arduous social duty in a city of
widely scattered dwellings and unpaved streets. Subsequent
first ladies certainly benefited by Elizabeth Monroes
breaking from this tradition.
In retirement
at Oak Hill, Elizabeth died on September 23, 1830; and
family tradition says that her husband burned the letters
of their life together.
LOUISA
ADAMS .
The
only first lady from outside the United States, Louisa
Catherine Adams did not come to this country until four
years after she had married John Quincy Adams. Political
enemies sometimes called her English. She was born in
London in 1775 to an English mother, but her father
was American who had served as United States consul.
John Quincy
Adams developed an interest in charming 19-year-old
Louisa when they met in London in 1794. Three years
later they married, and in course of duty went to Berlin.
At the Prussian court she displayed the style and grace
of a diplomat's lady. The ways of a Yankee farm community
seemed strange indeed when, in 1801, she first came
to the United States.
In 1809
she left her two older sons in Massachusetts for education
and took two-year-old Charles Francis to Russia, where
Adams served as minister. Despite the glamour of the
tsar's court, Louisa struggled with cold winters, strange
customs, limited funds and poor health; an infant daughter
born in 1811 died the next year. In 1814, she and little
Charles had to make a 40-day journey across war-ravaged
Europe. Happily, the next two years gave her an interlude
of family life in the country of her birth.
The appointment
of John Quincy as Monroe's secretary of state brought
the Adamses to Washington in 1817, and Louisa's drawing
room became a center for the diplomatic corps and other
notables. Good music enhanced her Tuesday evenings at
home, and theater parties contributed to her reputation
as an outstanding hostess.
But the
pleasure of moving to the White House in 1825 was dimmed
by the bitter politics of the election and by her own
poor health. She suffered from deep depression. Though
she continued her weekly "drawing rooms," she preferred
quiet evenings - reading, composing music and verse,
playing her harp. The necessary entertainments were
always elegant, however; and her cordial hospitality
made the last official reception a gracious occasion
although her husband had lost his bid for re-election.
Louisa thought
they were retiring permanently, but in 1831 her husband
began 17 years of notable service in the House of Representatives.
In 1848, one year after their fiftieth wedding anniversary,
John Quincy was fatally stricken at the Capitol. Louisa
died in Washington in 1852, and today lies buried at
his side in the family church at Quincy, Massachusetts.


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RACHEL
JACKSON .
Wearing the
white dress she had purchased for her husband's inaugural
ceremonies in March 1829, Rachel Donelson Jackson was
buried at the Hermitage, her home near Nashville, Tennessee,
on Christmas Eve,1828. Lines from her epitaph
"A being so gentle and so virtuous slander might wound,
but could not dishonor" - reflected Andrew Jacksons
bitterness at campaign slurs that seemed to precipitate
her death.
Born in
Virginia in 1767, Rachel Donelson journeyed to the Tennessee
wilderness with her parents when only 12. At 17, she
married. But her husbands unreasoning jealousy
made it impossible for her to live with him. They separated
in 1790, and she was told that he was filing a petition
for divorce.
Andrew Jackson
married Rachel in 1791, but after two happy years they
learned that a divorce had never been obtained. Her
first husband brought suit on grounds of adultery. After
a divorce was granted, the Jacksons quietly remarried
in 1794. Although it had been an honest mistake, whispers
of adultery and bigamy followed Rachel. Jackson was
ready to avenge any slight to her. Scandal aside, her
unpretentious kindness won the respect of all who knew
her. The Jacksons never had children of their own, but
in 1809 they adopted a nephew and named him Andrew Jackson,
Jr. They also reared other nephews.
After losing
his beloved wife, Jackson asked Emily Donelson, Rachels
favorite niece, to serve as his White House hostess.
Though only 21, Emily skillfully cared for her uncle,
her husband, her four children (three born at the mansion),
many visiting relatives, and official guests. Praised
by contemporaries for her wonderful tact, she had the
courage to differ with the president on issues of principle.
Frail throughout her lifetime, Emily died of tuberculosis
in 1836.
During the
last months of the administration, Sarah Yorke Jackson,
wife of Andrew Jackson, Jr., the presidents adopted
nephew, presided as hostess of the Executive Mansion
in Emily Donelsons stead.