Harriet
Lane .
Unique
among first ladies, Harriet Lane acted as hostess for
the only president who never married. James Buchanan
was her favorite uncle and her guardian after she was
orphaned at the age of eleven. And of all the ladies
of the White House, few achieved such great success
in deeply troubled times as this polished young woman
in her 20s.
She was
born in 1830 in the rich farming country of Franklin
County, Pennsylvania. Her uncle supervised her sound
education in private school, completed by two years
at the Visitation Convent in Georgetown. By this time
"Nunc" was secretary of state, and he introduced her
to fashionable circles. In 1854 she joined him in London,
where he was minister to the Court of St. James's. Queen
Victoria gave "dear Miss Lane" the rank of ambassador's
wife; admiring suitors gave her the fame of a beauty.
"Hal" Lane
enlivened social gatherings with a mixture of spontaneity
and poise. After the sadness of the Pierce administration,
the capital welcomed its "Democratic Queen" in 1857.
Harriet Lane filled the White House with gaiety and
flowers, and guided its social life with enthusiasm
and discretion, winning national popularity.
As sectional
tensions increased, she sat formal dinner parties with
care, giving dignitaries proper precedence while keeping
political foes apart. Her task became impossible. Seven
states had seceded by the time Buchanan retired from
office. He thankfully returned with his niece to his
spacious country home, Wheatland, near Lancaster, Pennsylvania.
The popular
Miss Lane flirted happily with numerous beaux, but waited
until she was almost 36 to marry. Within the next 18
years she faced one sorrow after another: the loss of
her uncle, her two fine young sons, and her husband.
She decided
to live in Washington, among friends made during happier
years. She had acquired a sizable art collection, largely
of European works, which she bequeathed to the government.
Accepted after her death in 1903, it inspired an official
of the Smithsonian Institution to call her the "First
Lady of the National Collection of Fine Arts."
Harriet
also dedicated a generous sum to endow a home for invalid
children at the Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore.
It became an outstanding pediatric facility, and its
reputation is a fitting memorial to the young lady who
presided at the White House with such dignity and charm.
The Harriet Lane Outpatient Clinics serve thousands
of children today.
MARY
LINCOLN .
As a girlhood
companion remembered her, Mary Todd was vivacious and
impulsive, but "she now and then could not restrain
a witty, sarcastic speech that cut deeper than she intended
. . ." A young lawyer called her "the very creature
of excitement." All of these attributes marked her life,
bringing her both happiness and tragedy.
She was
born in Lexington, Kentucky, on December 13, 1818, the
daughter of pioneer settlers. Mary lost her mother before
the age of seven. Her father remarried; and Mary remembered
her childhood as "desolate" although she belonged to
the aristocracy of Lexington, with high-spirited social
life and a sound private education. She loved finery,
and her crisp intelligence polished the wiles of a Southern
coquette.
At age 20,
she went to Springfield, Illinois, to live with her
sister. Here she met Abraham Lincoln - in his own words,
"a poor nobody then." After a stormy courtship and a
broken engagement, they were married. Though opposites
in background and temperament, they were united by an
enduring love. Their years in Springfield brought hard
work and a family of boys. Lincoln's single term in
Congress, for 1847-1849, gave Mary and the boys a winter
in Washington, but scant opportunity for social life.
Finally her faith in her husband won justification with
his election as president in 1860.
Though her
position fulfilled her high social ambitions, Mrs. Lincoln's
years in the White House mingled misery with triumph.
While the Civil War dragged on, Southerners scorned
her as a traitor and citizens loyal to the Union suspected
her of treason. Critics saw her spending sprees as unpatriotic
extravagance, but when she curtailed entertaining after
her son Willie's death in 1862, they accused her of
shirking her social duties.
Yet Lincoln,
watching her put her guests at ease during a White House
reception, could say happily: "My wife is as handsome
as when she was a girl, and I ... fell in love with
her; and what is more, I have never fallen out."
Her husband's
assassination in 1865 shattered Mary Todd Lincoln. The
next 17 years held nothing but sorrow. With her son
"Tad" she traveled abroad in search of health, tortured
by distorted ideas of her financial situation. After
Tad died in 1871, she slipped into a world of illusion
where poverty and murder pursued her. A misunderstood
and tragic figure, she passed away in 1882 at her sister's
home in Springfield - the same house from which she
had walked as the bride of Abraham Lincoln, 40 years
before.