|
|
| |
|
| |
|
| |
LUCY
HAYES .
There
was no inaugural ball in 1877. When Rutherford B. Hayes
and his wife left Ohio for Washington, the outcome of
the election was still in doubt. When it was settled
in his favor, Lucy Hayes watched her husband take his
oath of office at the Capitol, her serene and beautiful
face impressing even cynical journalists.
Lucy came
to the White House well loved by many. Born in Chillicothe,
Ohio, in 1831, she lost her father at age two. She was
just entering her teens when her mother took her brothers
to the town of Delaware to enroll in the new Ohio Wesleyan
University. Lucy began studying with its excellent instructors,
and graduated from the Wesleyan Female College in Cincinnati
at 18, unusually well educated for a young lady of her
day.
"Rud" Hayes
had set up a law practice in Cincinnati, and began paying
calls at the Webb home. References to Lucy appeared
in his diary: "Her low sweet voice is very winning ...
a heart as true as steel.... Intellect she has too....
By George! I am in love with her!" Married in 1852,
they lived in Cincinnati until the Civil War, and he
soon came to share her deeply religious opposition to
slavery. Over 20 years Lucy bore eight children, of
whom five grew up.
She won
the affectionate name of "Mother Lucy" from men of the
23rd Ohio Volunteer Infantry who served under her husband
in the Civil War. She ministered to the wounded, cheered
the homesick and comforted the dying. When Hayes became
governor of Ohio, Lucy accompanied him on visits to
state reform schools, prisons and asylums, gaining experience
in what a woman of her time aptly called "semi-public
life."
Lucy entered
the White House with confidence. An admirer hailed her
as representing "the new woman era." Although she was
a temperance advocate and liquor was banned at the mansion
during this administration, she took criticism of her
views in good humor to become one of the best-loved
hostesses to preside over the White House. She and the
president celebrated their silver wedding anniversary
there in 1877.
The Hayes
term ended in 1881, and the family moved to "Spiegel
Grove," their estate at Fremont, Ohio. Husband and wife
spent eight active, contented years together until her
death in 1889. Lucy was buried in Fremont, mourned by
her family and hosts of friends.
LUCRETIA
GARFIELD .
In the fond
words of her husband, James A. Garfield, Lucretia "grows
up to every new emergency with fine tact and faultless
taste." She proved this to the nation - though she was
always a reserved, self-contained woman. She flatly
refused to pose for a campaign photograph, and much
preferred a literary circle or informal party to a state
reception.
Born in
1832, Lucretia Rudolph acquired a love of learning from
her father, a leading citizen of Hiram, Ohio. She first
met "Jim" Garfield when both attended a nearby school,
and they renewed their friendship in 1851 as students
at the Western Reserve Eclectic Institute.
Lucretia
and James began a courtship in December 1853, not marrying
until November 1858. His service in the Union Army from
kept them apart, and their first child, a girl, died
in 1863. But after his first lonely winter in Washington
as a representative, the family remained together. They
enjoyed a happy domestic life. A two-year-old son died
in 1876, but five children grew up healthy and promising.
"Crete" became more and more her husband's companion.
In Washington, they read together, made social calls
together, dined with each other and traveled in company.
By 1880 they were as inseparable as his career permitted.
Garfield's
presidency brought a cheerful family to the White House
in 1881. Though not particularly interested in a first
lady's social duties, Lucretia was deeply conscientious
and her genuine hospitality made her dinners and receptions
enjoyable. In May she fell gravely ill, apparently from
malaria and nervous exhaustion. Garfield was profoundly
distressed. "When you are sick," he had written her
several years earlier, "I am like the inhabitants of
countries visited by earthquakes."
She was
still convalescing at a seaside resort in New Jersey
when an assassin shot her husband on July 2, 1881. She
returned to Washington by special train "frail,
fatigued, desperate," reported an eyewitness, "but firm
and quiet and full of purpose to save."
During the
three months her husband fought for his life, her grief,
devotion and fortitude won the respect and sympathy
of the country. In September, after his death, the bereaved
family went home to their farm in Ohio. For another
36 years she led a strictly private but busy and comfortable
life, active in preserving the records of her husband's
career. She died on March 14, 1918.
|


Mary Arthur McElroy
|
|
ELLEN
ARTHUR .
Chester Alan
Arthur's beloved "Nell" died of pneumonia on January
12, 1880. That November, when he was elected vice president,
he was still mourning her bitterly. In his own words:
"Honors to me now are not what they once were."
Ellen Herndons
family connections among distinguished Virginians had
shaped her life. She was born in 1837 at Culpeper Court
House, the only child of a naval commander. When her
father was assigned to help establish the Naval Observatory,
they moved to Washington, D. C. Ellens beautiful
contralto voice attracted attention. She joined the
choir at St. John's Episcopal Church on Lafayette Square.
In 1856
a cousin introduced her to "Chet" Arthur, who was establishing
a law practice in New York City. They were engaged in
1857. In a birthday letter that year, he wrote of "the
soft, moonlight nights of June, a year ago ... happy,
happy days at Saratoga--the golden, fleeting hours at
Lake George." He wished he could hear her singing.
That same
year, 1857, Ellens father died a heros death
at sea, going down with his ship in a gale off Cape
Hatteras. The marriage did not take place until October
1859; and a son named for Commander Herndon died when
only two. But another boy was born in 1864, and a girl,
named for her mother, in 1871. Arthur's career was bringing
the family an increasing prosperity. They decorated
their home in the latest fashion and entertained prominent
friends with elegance. At Christmas there were jewels
from Tiffany for Nell and the finest toys for the children.
Her sudden
death came when she was only 42. Just two days before
she had attended a benefit concert without him in New
York City, and caught cold that night while waiting
for her carriage. She was already unconscious when he
reached her side.
At the White
House, Arthur would not give anyone the place that would
have been his wife's. He asked his sister Mary (Mrs.
John E. McElroy) to assume certain social duties and
help care for his daughter. He presented a stained-glass
window to St. John's Church in Ellens memory.
It depicted angels of the Resurrection, and at his special
request it was placed in the south transept so that
he could see it at night from the White House with the
lights of the church shining through.
|


Rose Cleveland
|
|
FRANCES
CLEVELAND .
"I detest
him so much that I don't even think his wife is beautiful,"
said one of President Grover Cleveland's political foes
- the only person, it seems, to deny the loveliness
of this notable first lady, first bride of a president
to be married in the White House.
Frances
Folsom was born in Buffalo, New York, in 1864, an only
child. Her father was a law partner of Cleveland's.
As a devoted family friend, Cleveland bought little
"Frank" her first baby carriage. As administrator of
the Folsom estate after her father's death, he guided
her education with sound advice. When she entered Wells
College, he asked Mrs. Folsom's permission to correspond
with her, and he kept her room bright with flowers.
Though Frances
and her mother missed his presidential inauguration
in 1885, they visited Grover Cleveland at the White
House that spring. Affection turned into romance, and
despite a 27-year age difference, the wedding took place
there on June 2, 1886.
Cleveland's
sister Rose gladly gave up the hostess duties she had
been fulfilling for her own career in education; and
with a bride as first lady, state entertainments took
on a new interest. Francess charm won her immediate
popularity. She held two weekly receptions - one on
Saturday afternoons, when women with jobs were free
to come.
After Clevelands
defeat in 1888, the couple lived in New York City, where
baby Ruth was born. With his unprecedented re-election,
Frances returned to the White House as if she had been
gone but a day. Through the political storms of this
term she always kept her place in public favor. People
took keen interest in the birth of Esther at the mansion
in 1893, and of Marion in 1895. Mrs. Cleveland had become
one of the most popular women ever to serve as hostess
for the nation.
The family
moved out of the White House in 1897, and Frances bore
two sons while they lived in Princeton, New Jersey.
She was at her husband's side when he died there at
their home, "Westland," in 1908.
In 1913
she married Thomas J. Preston, Jr., a professor of archeology,
and remained a figure of note in the Princeton community
until she died. She had reached her 84th year - nearly
the age at which the venerable Mrs. Sarah Polk had welcomed
the Clevelands on a presidential visit to the South,
and chatted of changes in White House life from bygone
days.
|
CAROLINE
HARRISON .
The
centennial of President Washington's inauguration heightened
the nation's interest in its heroic past, and in 1900
Caroline Scott Harrison lent her prestige as first lady
to the founding of the National Society of the Daughters
of the American Revolution. She served as its first
president general. She took a special interest in the
history of the White House, but the mature dignity with
which she carried out her duties never overshadowed
the fun-loving nature that had charmed "Ben" Harrison
when they met as teenagers.
Born at
Oxford, Ohio, in 1832, "Carrie" Scott was the second
daughter of a the founder of the Oxford Female Institute.
As a pupil there, she infatuated the reserved young
Ben, then an honor student at Miami University. They
were engaged before his graduation and married in 1853.
They enjoyed
a happy family life interrupted only by the Civil War.
While General Harrison was away, Caroline cared for
their son and daughter, gave active service to the First
Presbyterian Church and to an orphans' home. Blessed
with considerable artistic talent, she was an accomplished
pianist. She especially enjoyed painting for recreation.
During her
husband's term in the Senate, 1881-1887, she was repeatedly
kept away from Washington's winter social season by
illness, and she welcomed their return to private life.
But she moved with poise to the White House in 1889
to continue the gracious way of life she had always
created in her own home. The Harrisons shared the White
House with some of their relatives, including their
daughter, Mary McKee, and her two children. Carolines
efforts to have the mansion enlarged were in vain, but
she did assure an extensive renovation with up-to-date
improvements.
As well
as giving elegant receptions and dinners, the first
lady worked for local charities, established the collection
of china associated with White House history and, along
with other ladies of progressive views, helped raise
funds for the Johns Hopkins University medical school
on condition that it admit women. In the winter of 1891-1892,
she fought illness as she tried to fulfill her social
obligations. Caroline Harrison died of tuberculosis
at the White House in October 1892, and after services
in the East Room was buried at her own church in Indianapolis.
President
Harrisons daughter Mary acted as hostess for her
father in the last months of his term. In 1896, after
leaving office, he married Carolines widowed niece
and former secretary, Mary Scott Lord Dimmick. She survived
him by nearly 47 years, dying in January 1948.
|
|
|